Ep. 15: Interview with Lora DiCarlo

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Holy sh*t this interview, with badass boss Lora Haddock CEO and Founder of Lora DiCarlo was so much fun! We talk about how her and her team created the revolutionary hand frees robotic tool made to bring about the ever coveted blended orgasm, swoon! How this genius invention won a prestigious award and then was swiftly take away for, wait for it . . . being profane. And this my friends is what is at the heart of the issue of women going after and owning their pleasure. Hope you enjoy this tantalizing conversation of brilliance, bossing and bias. 

Ep. 14: Interview with Marriage Mentor Maggie Reyes

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If you are looking for any tips on how to have a brilliant marriage filled with love and pleasure then Maggie has the answers for you! Seriously. She does. Like allllll the answers. She is a marriage and relationship expert and I love our conversation - how to talk to your partner about sex and pleasure, how to notice and close up those loops that may be keeping you from pleasure, and how impactful a delicious sex life can ACTUALLY be in your marriage, health and impact on the world.

To access the link Maggie mentioned in the interview please visit  https://modernmarried.com/creatingsafety


Maggie Reyes is a Certified Life Coach and Modern Marriage Mentor who helps smart women have better marriages. Her romantic-yet-practical approach to love has appeared in numerous publications including Brides, Bustle, Lifehacker, Martha Stewart Weddings and the nationally syndicated radio show Day Break USA. She loves super hero movies and chocolate. You can find her online in her free group The Better Marriage Club on Facebook.

Ep. 13: Why Pleasurable Sex is Important For Your Growth

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We make time for what is important to us, even though our time is usually consumed by the things the brain labels as urgent. And the fact of the matter is, for most entrepreneurs and those of us with a lot on our plates SEX doesn't make the cut - in either category - urgent or important. But why not? Sex - pleasurable sex - is the connector of every single desirable trait we want to have in our lives and our business - don't believe me? Listen in and find out why sex should 100% be considered important.

Ep. 12: Finding Pleasure In The Midst of Pain

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It's easy to believe that pleasure is unattainable when we are experiencing physical pain - that perhaps it is not accessible to us. It can become a reason to shut down the possibility of pleasure in our bodies because we hurt. And boy do I know this story well. In this episode I share my personal struggles with physical pain and how I was able to find a delicious harmony of pleasure and pain in my body. Listen in to learn how to begin to experience pleasure alongside your pain or health issues.

Ep. #11: "Do Not Disturb" . . . Vacay Sex

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Vacay and sex seem to go hand in hand for many couples - and why shouldn't it, it can be oh so good. In this episode we explore what happens to make vacation sex oh so good and what keeps you cumming back for more. Also how can we get a little more of that at home? Listen in as I break down some common things that happen while on vacation, the mindset behind it and how you can specifically recreate the magic in your own home. 

Download the companion worksheet below to investigate further what turns you on about vacation sex and how you can bring more of that home!

Ep. #10: The Felt Sense with Rachel Sample

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In this special inaugural interview episode, I am joined by the founder of The Felt Sense, Rachel Sample. We discuss the importance of creating safe and welcoming spaces for conversations to emerge around sensuality and sexuality and how The Felt Sense was born. The assumptions made about women who speak openly about sexuality, erotic story telling versus porn, and of course the patriarchy of pleasure. You will be sure to fall in love with Rachel, her sassy and smart approach to sexuality and the open discourse we need in today's world.

For more on Rachel, her offerings and to download her audible erotic stories please visit thefeltsense.com

Ep. #9: To Schedule or Not To Schedule

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Scheduling sex? Um no thanks! If that is your immediate response you are so not alone. I used to turn my nose all the way up to planning or scheduling anything especially sex. But why might this help you get your groove on? And no it isn't just about getting that date night on the calendar - it goes so much deeper than that. Listen on and find out why!

Ep. #7: Learning to Be More Sexual

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Learning to be more sexual might seem as though it should come easy. I can just flirt more and wear a sexy outfit right? Well, yes and no. In this episode we explore the nature vs nurture convo as it relates to sexuality as well what you can do to set yourself up for success as you learn how to step into your sexual prowess. 

Ep #6: Will It Get Better?

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There is an underlying subtext that most of us have when we begin to take a closer look at our sex lives . . . will it get better? Is this possible for me? Am I broken/fixable? And that my friends is exactly where we start - with where YOU are in this moment and taking a closer look at how you are mentally relating to sexuality. In this episode, through relatable stories and the psychology of the mind, you will learn that knowing where you are at and then knowing how you feel/think about where you are at,  is the key to creating lasting change. Because how you relate to yourself when facing change or challenge is everything when it comes to cumming.

Ep #5: Making A Long Time Lover New Again

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Ok so you have been with your lover for a while now and perhaps you are starting to feel like two ships passing in the night or like your connection has lost that passion or maybe just that sex feels super routine and not exciting. I totally get you. In this episode, you will learn how to actually desire your longtime lover again and how to bring more deliciousness into your sex life. Buckle up buttercup, time bring the sexy back to your marriage or long-time partnership.

Ep #4: Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Vagina

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Awaken your body to experience more pleasure! For so many of us, we are living from the next up - in our head's thinking about anything from our businesses to politics to that cute jumper we saw on Instagram. In this episode, you will learn how to identify when your mind is wandering and how to specifically train it to come back into your body and open up to a more pleasurable sexual experience. Buckle up - this is a juicy episode!

Ep #3: Stress and Sex

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Stress is prevalent in modern life - whether we like it or not.

We are sick and tired of hearing about stress and its negative effects - I get you but truly understanding how stress may keep you away from mind-blowing sex may be just what you need to stop simmering in a reactive brain state. Not only that when you understand how stress happens and what you can actually do about it (no, it is not a face mask and a glass of wine) then you might be able to start enjoying what your mama gave you once again.

I promise - this title might be blah - but stress and sex as explained in this episode is anything but boring.

Ep #2: Setting the Intention for Pleasure

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Sex and pleasure are one of those things we 'expect' to just happen to us, like all of the sudden you will be swept off your feet in desire and arousal. Unfortunately with everything going on in your life that is just now what tends to happen, not to mention this is not the way the brain is wired. 

In this episode I cover the importance of setting the intention to bring more pleasure in your life, why it is so important and how my going after it all of the things you will discover that are actually keeping you from experience ecstatic pleasure and satisfaction in your life.

Ep #1: Mind-Blowing Sex

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In this inaugural episode, I lay out the landscape for this path to stimulate your brain (and hopeful your lady parts) in going after a better sex life. Why it is so important at this time in our lives and in history to truly take back ownership of our pleasure. How going after amazing sex will connect you deeper with yourself, your partner and catapult so many areas of your life. We all have the opportunity for deep sexual pleasure, yes even you! Also you may be wondering - what does the brain-mind-body connection have to do with sex?! Well listen in and get ready to have your mind blown.