Ep. 63: "From Rejecting to Relishing in Her Body” an Interview w/ Jamee

In this episode I share with you another interview with my beloved clients, Jamee. I just love hearing her paint the picture of what it looks like to be a vibrant woman who’s alive in her body. She shares with you just how she went from rejecting her body, for a number of reasons, to now being able to relish in the pleasure of it. She wanted to make choices from a place of love, and now she can because she’s in a deep love affair with herself. She also talks about the new approach she has to sex, now that she has recognized that she truly enjoys it and wants it for herself. By learning how to tap into that pleasure, she’s now able to apply it to other areas of her life, and she talks about the transformation she’s seen because of it. 

For any of you that are ready to do this work, my group program, Better Sex in 90 Days, is open right now. I’m so excited to take you through this transformational journey because I know what it’s like on the other end. As I take clients through this process of falling in love with themselves and redeveloping this deep relationship with their bodies and their partners, they can dive deep into their sexuality. And also by doing this work, they can bring integrate what they learn into their lives and become a fully expressed person. It’s the most incredible work you can do. 

Topics in this episode:

• Getting curious about the fact that sexual pleasure isn’t just about your partner, and that it can be for you too.
• Opening up to pleasure, instead of ignoring yourself and your needs
• “I wonder what else feels good.”
• Spend more time thinking about what it is you do want, instead of all the reasons why you don’t. 
• Making the shift so that you are able to actually ask for what you want. 
• Having compassion for yourself shows up in having compassion for your partner, and allows you to be able to show up for yourself and for sex.
• Part of the reason it doesn’t feel pleasurable is that sex is under the veil of obligation. But once it becomes a choice that you are free to make, you will feel the pleasure of making that choice.
• The ripple effect of being a pleasured woman, and how that changes our parenting, and the people around us 

It’s been my absolute pleasure to bring you this episode where we got to hear all about Jamee’s journey and where she’s at. It’s been such a delight to work with her and to keep doing this work with her through our group program, so that she can continue to find new levels of pleasure. I hope that by being able to hear her story and the ups and downs she’s experienced, and what it’s like on the other side, that it inspires you. Sex doesn’t have to be a “have to”. It can be a choice you make for yourself.