Ep. 97: He Only Wants Sex From Me

I’ve got to be honest with you and tell you that I’m a little bit fired up, and there’s something that we can all do about it. There is something that I hear from women all the time, whether they are clients, friends, or from people on social media, I hear them say, “he only wants one thing from me”.  This is not a thought that creates an openness to desire and becoming a more turned-on woman.

Let’s take a look at how this idea of sex being a give and take has been engrained in us from a very young age, and how a shift in our thoughts can really change the narrative around sex within our society as a whole. And not only that, we’ll look at how you can apply these shifts to your relationship and how you can make your pleasure about you, and create the results you are seeking of more passion and connection.

Topics in this episode

• Being aware of our thoughts, and the ones that do not create an openness to pleasure
• Investigating how it feels in our bodies when we think "he only wants something from me"
• It’s not him. It’s actually you.
• Blaming our partners
• How we are sabotaging our own pleasure
• Being able to identify when your brain is working against you
• How as a culture we perpetuate the idea that men only want sex from

It has been my absolute pleasure to share this truth bomb with you about him wanting something from you, and how it’s killing your own desire and your own pleasure. And if you are wanting to take this work to the next level, I invite you to join Better Sex in 90 Days, where I share practices and tools for you so that you get real results.